Apples and... Round Red Fruits That Grow On Trees?

[botias]

Remember I was talking about how Joss Whedon is no stranger to eroticizing torture, for all that he gets his panties in a bunch if the torturee is a woman. Because he's a feminist and thinks women should be equal to men in all things. :|

Here's someone who looked at Whedon's record more closely: Torture in the 'Verse (from the su_herald)

And the FLDS thing got me thinking too. Within the last couple of years I've read at least two National Geographic Articles describing the marriage practices of African tribespeople that pretty much are equivalent to the practices of the FLDS. Pre-pubescent girls are available sexually to the young warriors-in-training until the girls start to menstruate. Then they are married off by their fathers to older men they don't know. The articles were presented without condemnation of any kind. It's just a different culture, right? Imagine the outcry if they had done an article on a FLDS "tribe". So, why the difference in perception? Is it a race thang?

Comments

[botias.livejournal.com]

I don't think it's OK for women to hit men, or for men to hit men. I would never, ever hit my husband nor can I imagine a situation in which that would be OK. Well... barring his full consent and enthusiastic encouragement :P I just know that my emotional response to these acts against men, both fictionalized and RL, is much different than to the same act of violence against women, and children and animals besides

[bendy1.livejournal.com]

Ah. I get that, and I get that it's a normal reaction, but I don't have it.

But I have a major violence squick in RL. Of course we protect children much more but really protecting women 'more' only involves giving them the agency men already possess.